in response to karin@lbibeachlover.com... Wish I could help you all, cause it would help me too. I'm almost 50, disabled 12 years ago after an accident. I'm also a single dad of 2 daughters, which are increasing in cost as they age too, and being a father, I want to at least give them what they need. Which is more often not what they want though. I bought my home 20 years ago and with all the increases in insurance, taxes, utilities and just cost of living, I can no longer meet the monthly payments of 1200. Luckily, I only paid 40k for my home and did not over buy even though I was making good money and felt I was set in my career. Ive contacted everyone I could think of and there is no break for the disabled, not even with the city, state or fed gov. And of course my SSDI payment puts me $4 over the limit to get assistance like food stamps